Preparing to stretch your ear?

hi there. no, you should NEVER just push it in!! IT will permentaly damage your ear and cause excessive bleeding. Take it slowly at a time, pushing it in a little and stopping and gradually make it to the point it goes all the way in! :) After its in, prepare to clean it with saltwater. No, don't sleep with it in because it will hurt..get used to it first like maybe after a month or so. Good luck!